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Daniel Nest's avatar

I can definitely relate to being frugal and consciously weighing the costs of my decisions.

I think if I were single, I'd still be pretty content living in a small apartment and have the bare minimum of stuff around me. When I do prioritize "splashing" on some stuff, it's always when I think there's a specific practical function to that cost. So I'd never e.g. pay extra for a computer because it has a flashy design or looks sleek - but I'd be comfortable spending more on it being faster,, having more storage, and other functional stuff I actually need out of it.

I'm not sure if this is the product of my Soviet upbringing. Like you, I grew up not really having to worry about surviving tomorrow. We were also a middle-class family. But I also watched some family members and people around me spend more than they could afford on things and it was often even somebody else's money that they borrowed or got. This probably instilled some form of appreciation for being content with stuff that does the job instead of overspending.

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Rabbi Eli L. Garfinkel's avatar

I also grew up in a frugal household and I, too, lacked for nothing. For instance, I never had the Atari consoles that my friends had. But that didn't matter because, well, my friends had Atari consoles!

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